Wednesday, January 13, 2010

What do you think when parents purposely have children on holidays?

Lots of people try to purposely have their kids on Christmas, Valentines Day, New Years, etc.





How do you feel when people do that?What do you think when parents purposely have children on holidays?
It's not for me, but if it works for other people, then why not. My birthday is in June, and it's kind of nice that way. I don't think I would want my kids to be born near a holiday...Just imagine, Christmas and a birthday a few days apart? Plus the kid usually gets jipped since most people get them a combined present for their b-day/Christmas...I know my brother in law hated having his birthday 2 days before Christmas every year since his brothers always got lots of toys and attention on their b-days and he had to share the spotlight with everyone else.What do you think when parents purposely have children on holidays?
you mean conceive them on holidays or have them born? because the being born thing would be hopelessly ineffective. kids don't get born on their due dates, so it would be virtually impossible to plan such a thing.





and i think anyone who's already pregnant that schedules induction just so their child will be born on a particular day is out of their minds (if anyone actually does that). let the child be born when the child is ready or there is a medical reason to induce.





as for conceiving, well, i suppose they're having fun on their holiday. what's wrong with that?
Whats wrong with that? They want their family together for the holidays.





My mom wanted all of her kids together for Christmas this year because she is going to be selling the house we all grew up in together. She knew it would be our last Christmas in the homestead.





HAHAHA that makes more sense. I have no idea. I think people who do that are kinda crazy.
Whatever floats their boat. I know a lot of people really tried for the Y2K mark - whatever works and makes them happy. It doesn't really matter, does it? As long as the baby is healthy then who cares if they are trying to have it on a certain date? It's not going to happen anyways unless it's supposed to - no one is an accident , everyone is born when they are supposed to be born - God sees to that! :)
Actually, most people try to avoid most holidays. With the exception of Valentine's Day and St. Patrick's day, our local hospitals usually have fewer births. Major holidays have a shortage of staff and NOBODY will induce or plan a c-section for New Years short of a medical problem.





Also, sometimes the reasoning is unrelated to the holiday. For instance, my friend, who would ordinarily had a c-section this week, had her baby last Thursday because she would have no help after New Years.





I wouldn't worry any about a minority of people.
Why not? I don't see any reasons why someone would criticize them for doing that. Maybe they think it is a great present... I think if they want to do that, then let them. Personally, I will let the child come when they want to.
I think nothing is wrong with it. I really want the baby my wife is having to be born on fathers day!
i dont agree with having a child on a holiday. each person should have their own special day with attention on them. holidays are to be shared with the whole family and singling someone out may be challenging and that child may be short changed. i dont think christmas is such a fun day to be born on. the person may not get spoiled as much due to the busy season, shortage of money, and dont always get any extra gifts because of their birthday. i understand though of wanting to have the last baby of the year or the first of a new year
I think it's ridiculous, but if that's what they want, oh, well.
If they induce on a holiday, then I don't agree with it because the baby could be inside the womb growing more, instead of coming out before he/she was actually ready.





If they tried to conceive so the baby would be born on a holiday, then that's fine. No opinion really.
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