Saturday, January 23, 2010

What are some good arguments to have parents lengthen my curfew?

My curfew is 1130 on the dot. What are some things I can say to get it extended a little. Like till 12. I am 17 and am a good kid.What are some good arguments to have parents lengthen my curfew?
tell them...





your old enough for a longer curfew


your responsible enough


that if they extend your curfew, you'll wash the dishes, or clean the house or something.


your almost an adult and should have a later curfew


you can drive, so you should have a later curfew





if that doesn't work and your spoiled..


use the classic


blink your eyes, and do the puppy dog face and give your parents a big hug and say'; pretty pretty pleeeease daddddyyy/mommmyy';





lol, i use that trick all the time.


good luck by the way.
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  • Please help: How do I convince my parents to let me have a kitten?

    Hi,


    we already have a dog but my friend in selling ragdoll kittens (her cat gave birth) for free! They are oh, so adorable and fluffy and cute and small. AND it's my birth day soon. How do I convince my mother and father to get one?Please help: How do I convince my parents to let me have a kitten?
    I suggest that you tell what you want to your parents when they are in a light mood. Also show them that you can take good care of a cat and you can start it by taking care of your dog that way your parents wont have any hesitation on giving you a cat as a birthday giftPlease help: How do I convince my parents to let me have a kitten?
    Buy some mice from the pet store and let them loose in the house.
    Try using the old Navaho Indian trick- of getting on your knees, clenching your hands, %26amp; screaming and begging them to let you have a kitten for your Birthday. At the very LEAST- they'll think about it- after they get done laughing! :)
    just remind them of how well you take car of the dog and let them know you are ready for the additional responsibilty of taking care of a cat...





    if you say it like that, they'll know you are serious.





    good luck.
    Whether you get a kitten or not might depend on your dog. Some dogs think small kittens are lunch. I have a Miniature Australian Shepherd and she would scoop up a kitten if we let her in the room. Since she's high energy we have to keep her outside most of the time anyway. We never let her hurt a kitten (the one she scooped up was all slobbery and mad but that's all). However, if we hadn't stopped her I know she would have killed the kitten without realizing she shouldn't. This is what you should talk to your parents about first. They might suggest an older cat. It might help if you had a book about how to take care of kittens before you decided for sure that's what you wanted. You'll need to promise to do all the chores connected with the kitten and extra chores in the house as well (most parents will go for that). Just set our your reasons in a calm manner and discuss the pros and cons with your parents. You could also mention this as the most perfect birthday present ever. However, never, never, never whine.
    lol my sister wrote a page and a half ';persuasive essay'; when she was 12 to convince my dad that she would be responsible enough to take care if it! .....ironically it worked :)
    My mom's an animal lover so I always worked on here until I got an I don't care or as long as it's cute ;)
    How old are you? Kittens are care free....LOL....o.k., there is some care, but at least you don't have to potty train them. The worst thing you have to do before and after you get your kitten, if allowed, is get him/her/them, to not sharpen their claws on the furniture....this is instinct so you will not train them not to do it. Even my adopted cat still does it and she is declawed (not by me). Get them a scratching post before you get them anything else! Teach them that it's o.k. to scratch on that, but not anything else. I had two kittens just a couple of years ago, so I know. Other then that they really are care free!
    Well ask them politely how you feel and mention to them you got a b'day coming up and that's all you want!!


    I hope you are responsible enough to take care of kitty since she needs full time care. They cry and cry till they get fed and tend to leave little messes everywhere. Just do more research on taking care of kittens.

    How do I convince my parents into getting me a guinea pig?

    My friend brought in a baby guinea pig today and i was wondering if anybody knows how I can convince my parents in getting me one. I've tried when I was younger but gave up to early.How do I convince my parents into getting me a guinea pig?
    you should do research and tell your parents all you know about them, and what great of a pet they make. I mean really go all out on learning about them and their quirks, likes and dislikes, their nativity and instinct, what size of house he needs, how often he eats per day and what times and where he would prefer to play.





    Or bat your pretty lashes at Dad and ask sweetly, ';pleeeeeaze.. ? I'll take such good care of him..'; lol that usually works prety well ; ]How do I convince my parents into getting me a guinea pig?
    The best thing to do is to a lot of reasearch maybe give them a little show about them get pictures of them and all the cost.

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    show your interest in them, agree to do laundry/ chores for a week! but alot of people get these pets, love them for a week, then completey ignore them. make sure you really want it and are dedicated to it, they need lots of love!
    well when i wanted a pet cat i did tons of research on cats. i made a very neat organized ';cat'; binder where i had put all the information i researched. i presented it to them and told them why i wanted a cat, how i was going to pay for it, why cats were good pets....blah blah blah


    so basically you can research guinea pigs and find out all different kinds of information on them such as what they eat, what kind of cage they need, how long they live.... and find a creative way to present your information to your parents. and when all else fails show them cute pictures of guinea pigs or take them to the pet store and show them the guinea pigs and make them see how cute and adorable they are.





    heres some info on guinea pigs:





    Food:they eat guinea pig food which you can find in pretty much any pet store (i feed mine fiesta guinea pig food) and they need unlimited amouts of fresh timothy hay. they also like fresh veggies (mine like lettuce and carrots) a couple times a week.





    Housing: they need a pretty big cage to live in, here is a great website to visit for the cage http://www.guineapigcages.com/





    Excersize: unlike hamsters they cant run on a wheel because their back isnt as flexible so thats why they need a big cage, so they can run around. you should also let them out of their cages a couple times a week for excersize.





    Cleaning: their cage needs to be cleaned at least once a week. you really dont need to bathe guinea pigs unless they get dirty or smelly. if you do need to bathe them, they make special shampoo for small animals (directions are on the bottle)





    Bedding: the pet store has all different kinds of bedding you could use for the bottom of the cage. a good cheap bedding i use is aspen. any bedding should be fine as long as you dont use cedar because it can be harmful to your piggy.





    Things you should know: some important things you should know are, their teeth never stop growing so you need to buy chew sticks they can chew on to naw down their teeth, they like privacy so a good hide out is good (such as a pigloo), they drink water like crazy so make sure they have fresh food and water each day





    Good Luck convincing your parents!!!
    show them how responsible you really are!


    Do the house chores, and never argue with them, just agree and try the next day. I guess arguing makes them unconvinced about getting you one!


    If you have any other animals, pay lots of attention to them and treat them properly!
    The best way to convince your parents that you are ready for a guinea pig is to show them that you have researched guinea pigs and know what you are getting into.





    Check out the links below. They cover everything from care to cages to diet to health. Once you have done your research, your parents will see that you are being responsible and that you will take caring for a guinea pig seriously.





    Best of luck!
    I used some of these I deas to convince my mom to get me a guinea pig. Belive me, they work:


    Research it and print out infromation on care. If you have other pets take over all care for them. Contact local breeders (pet stores can ussually give you phone numbers) and talk to them about owning a piggie. Show her you are passionate about this. Raise money for cage, food, and the pig itself.Offer to pay for part of expences. Go to local pet stores and calculate the cost of toys and cage. Make a ';Chore Chart'; of what you would do daily to take care of it. Find stories online of guinea pigs that are great pets. Make a contract saying what you would do to take care of it and say if you neglect it she can get rid of it. Ask if you can have it as a reward if you ace a test or report card. If your birthday is comming up you can say that is all you want.





    Good luck!
    I wanted to answer this because just yesterday i helped my sister into convincing my parents to get her gerbils. what she did was.....


    she did LOTS of research. She was constantly searching information on gerbils. She typed up lots of information, and put it together very neatly and presented it to my parents. This shows that you really care about this and that you are responsible enough





    My sister told them how she REALLY will take care of them, and she also proved this with some information she gave my parents.





    It worked! She can now have 2 gerbils. I did the same thing a year ago to get a hamster and now im doing it to get a leopard gecko.





    So you should try it!! It works for us. I hope it works for you.

    How can I convince my parents to get me a dog?

    My parents say I can't get a dog because I already have one, but I want my own dog. I know how to take care of them, and they know that, but she always gets really mad whenever I ask. I want a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. Help!How can I convince my parents to get me a dog?
    convince then by being very resonsible. you have to let them know that you can take care of yourself. because if you dont know how to take care of yourself...how do you know how to take care of a dog?How can I convince my parents to get me a dog?
    yay!

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    There is a reason why they are saying ';no';. Maybe it is the time involved in training, the costs, the Vet costs, etc. Enjoy the one you have and make his/her life the best quality of life you can. Play, feed, walk, love. If your parents feel that is too much to take on due to all of your lifestyle needs, etc., then it's best you just love what you have than to get one and find out later that it's not working. Then the puppy/dog is sadly returned.
    oyu should show them a good points in the dog that you want to choose and that you will really take good care of him/her and that you will treat them well and also say that you will do anything to get the dog because you love dogs so much also say that you will do a few things around the house to earn their trust to get the dog
    I must answer this same question a hundred times a day. stop bugging them. no means no. they get really mad because you are nagging them. stop. as a parent, i can tell you that is the most annoying thing when i say no, and they keep asking. just enjoy the dog you have and stop for heavens sake.
    Have you suggested that you want a dog of just your own? Maybe bring into it how you think you're ready for more responsibilty. Make a presentation on why you want a dog of your own. Good luck hope you get that puppy! (although I'd suggest saving one from a shelter instead of goin purebred)
    why dont you just enjoy the one you have now and wait till you move out to get your own if they say no then its best to wait...im sure they will be the ones paying for everything maybe they cant afford it right now.
    Be responsible for what you do and take care of it. Earn the right to have a dog, by proving you are responsible.
    you are pretty lucky u have one right now... i also wanted a dog but couldn't get one u should be happy with one when u move out u can get another one urself
    don't spend so much time on the computer...

    How do you convince your parents to get you texting?

    My mom suprised me with a family plan cell phone from Verizon last year. I never texted but my older brother did. So she decided to block texting. Now verizon has free texting to anyone in verizon plus 500 free texts. It costs $10 a month. Which I have told my mom I will pay for. She won't go for it.


    She thinks I will be texting all the time.





    Is there any possible way to convince her?How do you convince your parents to get you texting?
    Tell her that you are responsibe and SHOW her that you are. This way she will be convinced, ask her again in a few weeks after you being responsible.How do you convince your parents to get you texting?
    um if u have 500 text messages you can use then OF CORSE YOU WILL ALWAYS TEXT DUH ANYONE WOULD!
    Give her the $10 in advance for one month, and see if she'll agree to try it for that time. There's no better way to solve a disagreement than to put it to the test!
    show her that you can be responsible with your phone...idk how old you are but i'll guess you're high school aged. dont make calls during school, dont go over the plan limit, etc. and tell her you wont be texting during school or whatever. seeing as its summer that should be a problem. also, if you have rules about being on the phone (ie no phone calls past midnight) dont break those rules. hopefully once you show her you can be responsible with it, she'll give in! :)
    Let her know that if youre ever someplace without reception its a lot easier to send and recieve messages rather than calls. So if your car broke down on a back road somewhere and you cant call there might be a pretty good chance you could still text her and get helped out. Let her know that Verizon is one of the best companies to have with there texting packages and there service and coverage. Good luck!

    What to do with my parents' old photographs?

    I have 587 of my parents' old pictures scanned. I did the albums that had pocket style pages, and I’ve been debating how to do the ones in the sticky page albums.





    I have two options:





    1. I photograph them through their plastic.


    Pros: Less work, fewer fingerprints, no risk of damage from the removal itself.


    Cons: Photos are still un-safe over time, possibly reduced quality or increased glare.





    2. I take them out, scan then, then put them into something else, probably scrapbooks. I’ve been wanting to do a scrapbook where I’d have two copies of some pictures,one with a coloring book filter applied. People could write peoples names into their outlines.


    Pros: Photos are safe, people can be identified for us and future generations, scrapbooks are cooler than photo albums.


    Cons: Lots of work for something that might just make mom angry instead of happy. Very time consuming. Have to do one then sell her on the idea before proceeding with the rest.





    Your input, tips, or additional ideas?What to do with my parents' old photographs?
    I have found that photographing pictures often does not work. It is difficult to get a good image without glare from the plastic or picture itself. Sometimes you can angle the picture so lights are not reflected on it, but I think it's easier to go with the scanning option.





    If this is the type of sticky paged scrapbook I'm thinking it is, taking them off could easily ruin them. Instead, try scanning them on a flatbed scanner while still connected to the page. This way you can try it out without tearing or bending the images. Burn the images onto a gold archival DVD, as DVDs (especially home burned ones) are not guaranteed to last long. They cost more, but are worth it. If that doesn't work, I'd take them to a professional scanner and have them do it. And make a few copies, one for you, for your mom, for other relatives- that way if your copy gets lost or damaged all your images are not gone.What to do with my parents' old photographs?
    ALWAYS ASK FIRST. With your moms permission, get the originals in acid free and safe environment. Scan without the covers if possible for the best scan. Scrapbooks are not always safe. Make sure you cover the pictures.
    go for the first option. good luck!
    scan and put in non-stick albums sleeves,


    search for negatives and scan instead,


    then put on cd,
    BURN THEM TO DVD WITH SOME MUSIC ACCOMPANIMENT, AND GIVE EVERYONE IN YOUR FAMILY ONE FOR X-MAS. BURN IT ON NERO IT'S EASY IF I CAN DO IT-SO CAN YOU!!GOOD-LUCK.
    try making a collage or sumthing.. like take their oldest photos, and cut nd stik, and make like a timeline, so from oldest to newest.. so wen u go thru the pics, ur parents can see the changes
    Have a professional company put them on DVD. They will last forever. And then have them preserved-possibly contact a photographer for assistance or tips or a museum.
    How important is to her? She must want her grandchildren, great and so on to see these. Well Good luck with the work.~

    How do I convince my parents to let me get a 2nd piercing in my ear lobe?

    I'm 14 and I have no idea why they won't let me. They won't give me a reason. I just want to express myself. They let me have blue streaks in my hair and I'm not allowed a 2nd piercing. I have been asking 6 years now.How do I convince my parents to let me get a 2nd piercing in my ear lobe?
    well first off explain to them that they should be lucky your not asking for a tattoo or another body peircing..and over time if you stop asking them for awhile and explain to them that your not a bad kid..and to them that at least your not going and doing it behind their back. I've been asking for my bellybutton done and this is just about everything i used to persuade them to let me..i explained to them everything i just told you to explain to your parents. and a 2nd hole isn't that big of a deal which is why i am surprised they won't let you..and also tell them that you can take them out whenever they don't want you to wear them. and that its not always permanet..i've had mine close up and redone 4 times. hope i helped =\How do I convince my parents to let me get a 2nd piercing in my ear lobe?
    tell them that a girl who was struck by lightning was saved by her navel ring that her parents didnt let her have. it''s true! well, ok its not the same, but still...oh well i tried.
    Tell them the plusses to having it done. Be very purswazive (sp). I am 13 and i have 8 piercings in my ears. I have pierced 4 of them myself with a thick needle and ice to numb your ear. I wouldnt suggest it though, it could cause inffections. Let them know your point of veiws and tell them why you want it done.


    Hope I helped
    WHO IS YOUR MOM?????? IM 11 AND MY MOM WANTS ME TO GET A AND ONE AND A BELLY BOTTON PERASONING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Tell her that its like the first one its no the top its rtight beside the first one.... Tell her it dont mean im going goth it caus i want to put more earings in my ears so they all dont have to lay around....





    lol
    Have you tried to guess what thier reasons are? Parents aren't always just trying to hold you back. I sit and look at my little boy and want the world for him, and know there are choices that he will make that would make life difficult for him. You have a long life ahead of you yet at 14, perhaps as you get older and still hold the desire to do so, you can get it done as an adult.
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  • How do I tell my parents I want to stop taking piano and start taking guitar?

    My mom and dad love that I take piano and think I will be such a star at it and that I am lucky the are forcing me to play. I don't actually enjoy playing the piano that much and would much rather play the guitar. I just don't know how to tell this to them to make them not get upset with me. Please help. Thanks a bunch.How do I tell my parents I want to stop taking piano and start taking guitar?
    Ease them into it. First say you want to try the guitar. Once you have some lessons lined up, or you start learning yourself, they will see your interest and realize its not just a faze from watching to much Hendrix videos or something.





    But if you can just come right out and say it: ';I'd like to start playing guitar, and lay off on the piano for a while';





    Let them know your not completely giving up on the piano; once you start getting frustrated with guitar you'll want to play a different instrument for a bit anyways. It just helps with not getting to mad when you can learn a song.





    But remember you have to commit to the guitar if you really want to learn it. It's not very easy; your fingers are going to hurt and you'll get mad when the string make a ticking sound(muted note) instead of a note.





    Hope it all turns out okay!! =]How do I tell my parents I want to stop taking piano and start taking guitar?
    Apart from just being up front and honest you could suggest that you would like to try guitar lessons as well. If they want you to progess with a musical career I don't think they would object too much as the more instruments you learn the better you would be for it. If you excel in your guitar playing more than, say the piano, they may be quite happy for you to drop the piano in favour of just guitar lessons. It would be up to you to prove to them how devoted to guitar playing you really are. Good luck - I think being honest with your parents the best way to go.
    lol.... don't worry what they think, they will respect your decision.





    tell them that is your decision and you are sticking with it and going to learn play the guitar.





    if they still don't get it, tell them guitar is way cooler and piano is for sissy's - just kidding... but tell them guitar is just cooler and more portable, and you think it will be more enjoyable and in the long run a better skill to have.
    I came up with a really good aproach %26amp;nd also a possible outcome. Hope this helps.





    You: Mom, Dad ---


    Them: Yes my dear child


    You: I wanna try something new, I don't want piano


    Them: Eff you son, why do you have to be a B!t(H about it!


    You: But mom!


    Them: Come here son, it just can't be


    You: Oh, don't effin touch me mom


    Them: Son you are out of line


    You: So is your hairline dad, go bald!


    Dad: Don't make me come over there


    You: Don't get rowdy with me dad, I'll knock your eye crooked


    Them: Okay, you can play guitar.
    well, first you have to be comited, the guitar is extreamly hard to learn and takes years of practice to be at any level of good, i have been playing for ten years and just the other day i learned pinch harmonics, but if your comited then just tell them, if they understand then thats great, if they dont, bargain with them try to make a deal like if you do good in lessons the first few weeks then theyl let you play, just remember tho, you wont be a rock star the second you touch the neck
    Say ; I've complied with your dream for me, Mom and Dad, I have mastered the piano May I try for my own dream now? How could they say no? If they DO say no, tell them to eat **** and die. They're upset cannot be more painful than failing to follow your bliss.
    Say ';mom'; ';dad';, i would like to stop playing piano, and start playing guitar. What do u think?
    Just be honest


    But Piano will help you with the guitar trust me
    i want to stop taking piano and start taking guitar
    Play both. Any guitar player worth their salt can play at least some piano.
    Say, ';I don't want to play piano any more.';
    You need to be honest with your parents tell them where your heart is
    Just tell them. I did the exact same thing and they were cool with it.

    How does Homeschooling work for parents of Asperger children? Where do you get your curriculum from?

    I have a 10 yr old son with Asperger's Syndrome, and have had several years of nothing but problems with the public school system. I have thought about homeschooling him for quite some time now, and I was wondering what experiences people have.How does Homeschooling work for parents of Asperger children? Where do you get your curriculum from?
    There is a lot of information available on homeschooling and Asperger's. Homeschooling is highly recommended because it #1 puts parents in control of the social instruction these kids need, which is very different from the ';throw them in the pool and see if they can float'; socialization the kids get on the playground; and #2 it takes the performance pressure on a child down a step so that they can actually learn.





    In a classroom, an Aspie tends to excel only in the few narrow subjects that interest him and he becomes a behavioral distraction to the rest of the class for subjects that he sees no value in. That does not help socialize these kids at all and often further isolates them unless they are lucky enough to get a very understanding teacher.





    If your child is one who is sensitive to light and sound levels, a classroom will not be able to accommodate his needs. There are some wonderful social training materials that have become available in the past few years to help aspies learn to identify social cues. But these are most efficiently taught in a home living situation or in a small group of other kids with similar struggles. They don't get taught in a classroom because the social cues are things 90% of the kids will know intuitively, so the Asperger's child falls through the crack.





    In most cases, you do not need special curriculum although some kids benefit by eliminating bright, highly colored texts in favor of more black and white. It is an individual thing and you'd have to try to see if that is true for your child. Routine assignments that follow established procedures are often better that wildly creative things that change the ';rules.'; Oftentimes a computer-based program works well for this reason, it is consistent..





    Yes, go research what is out there because you will find things that help!How does Homeschooling work for parents of Asperger children? Where do you get your curriculum from?
    I have heard a number of success stories regarding teaching children with Asperger's Syndrome at home. I would recommend that you post your question at the homeschool forum at Home School Reviews.com. It's a very active discussion board which many homeschooling parents frequent.





    Editing to add: There is specific information about teaching children with Asperger's Syndrome at HSLDA's website -- I'm posting just one link below. If you type ';asperger's syndrome'; into the Search Window at HSLDA's website, you'll also get more pages.





    Hope this helps!
    Here's a great site to get you started. Follow the link





    http://www.homeschooldiner.com/specials/…





    A few other helpful sites





    http://homeschooling.gomilpitas.com/webl…





    http://www.associatedcontent.com/article…





    And here's a book you might wish to purchase





    http://www.amazon.com/Homeschooling-Chil…





    Good luck. I don't envy your task.

    How can I convince my parents to let me have a dog?

    I figure this question is asked alot here but oh well. Here's the story. I'm 14 years old and I want a dog badly. We live in an average sized 2-story house and have a large backyard. I can't seem to convince my parents (mainly my dad) to let me have a dog. I'm not the most responsible person in the world and I haven't had much luck with pets but I feel that I could take care of a dog on my own. We already have one dog but it just lazes around the house and is really lazy. I'm wanting a dog that I can do things with and will enjoy going out side and such with me. I need all the help I can get convincing them to let me have one. I haven't asked them yet though and that's why I came here to get help doing so.





    I appreciate any help.How can I convince my parents to let me have a dog?
    Well, you answered the question of why your folks aren't excited about getting you a dog. You have to prove you're going to act responsibly BEFORE you get a dog. Acting responsible will not miraculously occur just because you get a playful dog.





    To learn how to be responsible and prove you are ready to be given a dog, I recommend you either do volunteer work, or get a job at a rescue center where they deal with rescued animals and save them from the mistreatment they suffer from living with families who don't act responsibly and treat the dogs and cats and other animals properly. You will learn why it's so important to act with responsibility when you have animals. It's the same responsibility your parents had to develop to raise you as their child. You will learn how bad life is for dogs and cats whose owners are not responsible.





    As you learn, your parents will learn when you are ready to have the dog you want, and you will probably find just the right dog as there are wonderful dogs who need a good loving playmate after they are healed from injuries of being mistreated. The rescue group is a great place to find the dog you want. You'll get a dog who will really appreciate your love and attention, and you'll get a chance to learn which dog in rescue has the personality you are looking for. There was a dog in TN just recently who was shot with multiple arrows by his irresponsible owner, and the new owner is a lady who worked at the rescue group.How can I convince my parents to let me have a dog?
    You don't.





    Personally, if I was your parents, I wouldn't let you have a dog, either. In your question, you admitted you're not responsible, and I don't even WANT to wonder what ';not having much luck with pets'; means.





    Try taking care of the dog you have now. You know, take it out for walks, play with it. Seriously, no dog in its right mind would turn down a walk or playtime unless its really old and in pain, or there's something wrong with it.
    Showing that your responsible, like doing things that you have never done before that is useful. Get up more and clean. Cleaning is the biggest thing you can do to show you're responsible. It worked for me.
    Prove Yourself! Only you can show the responsibility of owning a dog. I was the same way... always wanting a puppy because we already had 2 lazy dogs. After showing my parents that I had everything needed to be a responsible owner, I got my pup!
    tell your parents that it will teach you more responsibility and get you prepared if you ever have twins . try thinking how it will benifit your parents
    You said yourself that you aren't very responsible and have had bad luck with pets in the past; I think that's a pretty good reason not to get a dog.





    Perhaps trying to be more involved with your current dog (i.e., feeding, watering, walking, playing ball, etc) for a while will show your dad that you are serious about the responsibility.
    Work for it.Make your dad (or parents) notice that your hard working and are willing to sacrfice alot if things for an energetic pup that can keep up with you.Have a serious chat with them about how you really want this dog and will be responsible when it comes to its well being.One thing why parents don't want dogs are the vet bills.You are old enough to get a neighborhood or babysitting job and pay for half of the vet bill and let them know that in advance.Good luck.

    How can I convince my parents to let me get a pet?

    I only want a hamster!


    I would pay for it and clean everything.


    My parents are really against it!


    How can I convince them?How can I convince my parents to let me get a pet?
    Ok here what you do, Instead of trying to convince them that your responsible (im not saying that you do) but show them responsibility show them that you can take care of a pet, step up in the house, get more active in your house.....How can I convince my parents to let me get a pet?
    First,try pet-sitting for neighbors to show them how responsible you are.Tell your parents if that you are mistreating it,they can take it back(take good care of it so it doesn't happen!)And say what extra chores you will do for it and how you will clean up after.Make sure no one in your family is allergic or afraid of rodents first.Good luck!
    say that they will never know how responsible you are unless they give you a chance. and say you want to be a vet, seriously, it could work!





    1- look up all the prices and where your gonna get one. and look up everything it needs to survive so your aware of the costs.


    2- look up interesting facts on it. interesting and convincing.


    3-do extra chores around the house.


    4-look up very cute pictures of them.


    5-be mature about this situation. parents dont like.....';plz plz plz plz plz plz plz!!!!!!waaaahhh!!!!!! PLZ PLZ PLZ'; all the time.


    6- tell them that you would do everything! and after you have all the research, gather them all around and give a presentation on all the research.








    Good Luck! i hope you get one!!!!!!
    Prove you are responsible by doing useful chores and getting fantastic grades. I guarantee it will work.
    get yourself a plant .....if its still loking healthy in a month ...point it out and try to upgrade to a hamster....i should point out that dead hamsters are harder to get rid of than a dead plant!!!
    what you do is you wait till mothers day and give your mum breakfast in bed and buy her something really nice then you ask her if you can get a hamster and she will feel to quilty to say no because of all the stuff you have brought her. Trust me it works iv tried it myself.
    Prove that you can be responsible for a hamster maybe by pet sitting or walking dogs for neighbors. Also, don't beg for a pet just wait and maybe your parents will see that you deserve a pet. Hopefully you'll get your hamster!
    Make sure you do all of your chores around the house for one. Then get a plant (spider plants are easy to grow and easy to come by) so that your parents can see that you pay attention to it. Finally, ask yourself if you really truly want to change the shavings when they have poop and pee all in them, and if you will actually pay attention to the hamster or leave it lonely in a wheel forever.
    Crawl and Grovel it usually works';
    if they are stamping their feet down theres not much you can do.





    you can try by helping round the house more etc..but you may end up disapointed if they still say no





    hamsters are probably the easiest pet to get (although noisy at night) but they do need daily attention maybe theyre worried youll get bored with it after a while and theyll end up having to clean it out etc...
    I never had any pets as a kid and that's coz my dad said he didnt want to end up looking after them.


    I now have 4 children and 12 rabbits, 10 chickens, 2 cats, 1 dog and 3 toads!!! and I can understand sometimes where he was coming from. Some of them pets are my childrens.


    Feeding them they do no problem its the cleaning out they not keen on.


    A hamster is a good starting pet, its what I started with. They dont cost that much to feed etc.


    You dont say how old you are?? maybe your parents dont want to be left with a hamster to look after when you busy with college or something.


    If yo are school age then I see no reason why you shouldnt have a pet.





    You learn lot from having a pet. You are sole career of that animal and you learn to care for someone other than yourself, so you become a less selfish person. And you learn responsibility too.





    I would never so no to my children if they wanted a pet (thats if we didnt have any!)
    Pets are a long term commitment, and they can be extremely tying. What do you intend to do when you go on holiday for instance? It still has to be fed and cleaned. What happens if you have a lot of homework or want to go out with your friends?





    Another problem arises if it escapes. My son had one when he was in his early teens and it kept getting out and eating the carpets.





    Think of all the things that can go wrong and work out what you will do if they do. That way you just might get your parents to relent but remember that if you do tire of it, they will either have to look after it or get rid of it and neither alternative is likely to please them.
    prove to them you can be responsible
    First,try pet-sitting for neighbors to show them how responsible you are.Tell your parents if that you are mistreating it,they can take it back(take good care of it so it doesn't happen!)And say what extra chores you will do for it and how you will clean up after.Make sure no one in your family is allergic or afraid of rodents first.Good luck!
    Hi!





    Tell your parents how proud of them you are that they are not prepared to incarcerate another life to appease you.





    Good wishes.

    How can i convince my parents to let me get a dog for my birthday?

    I really want a dog, i've had one before and didn't take care of it but now i think i'm ready for the responsibilities now. Do you have any advice on asking my parents for a dog?How can i convince my parents to let me get a dog for my birthday?
    first of all....here are the steps:


    1. stop asking


    2. stop bringing it up


    3. do extra chores and when you are done ask if there is more to be done.


    4. after a month or so of doing chores ask if they think you are responsable


    5. if they say yes started looking up litters.


    6. show your parents a little online or in a newspaper and ask if you can just go to LOOK.


    7. when you are at the breeders/shelter say omg its so cute! i would take care of you forever and ever and then say mom..can we please get it?


    8. if she says no then dont whine or cry. say ok...i guess i can wait


    9. continue doing this until you have a dog.


    good luck. convincing parents will not work. trust me. ive been there! i did everything there except the first litter we went to my mom fell in love with my chihuahua! i brought him home that night!








    edit: this is my first dog and i didn't think he would be that much work. he is. you need to take them to pee every hour and every morning , twice in the night,after he eats or drinks , when he wakes up from a nap its a lot of work and i feel like he is a baby! litterally. so he is my baby and i need to take care of him. remember that when you are choosing your dog. and for you...if you havn't tooken care of your last dog maybe you should get a dog that doesn't need as much attention. (all dogs need attention though)How can i convince my parents to let me get a dog for my birthday?
    when your taking to them dont let them say that their the ones that will be taking care of it...convince them before they say that that you can take care of it and they wont
    Start doing things around the house (dishes, dusting, vacuuming, clean your room) without being asked for a solid month at the least and then ask them again. If they notice you have been more responsible lately they will be more likely to say yes!
    hmmm..... didnt take care of a real creature i dont think u should get another 1
    show them that your responsible remind them all the time you will pick up after it feed it and all that.





    thats how i got mine. it was a big suprise!





    GOOD LUCK!;]
    Dogs take ALOT of time and patience. You have to take them outside to go to the bathroom, exercise them, give them lots of attention, they have to be fed at least twice a day, they need to be groomed and depending on the breed may need alot of brushing, and they need good training. Don't beg for a dog if you aren't ready for the all-day responsibility it takes to own a dog who will be around for many years. If you think you can do this now, look into different breeds online and everything you need to do to properly raise a dog. If your parents see you're well informed and ready for the challenge, they might just let you have one.
    tell ur parents ur lonely and if u dont get a dog ull kill urself. worked for me i got a cute little puggle puppie bye bye!!
    Well that depends if you live in an apartament where there is not much room for a dog then they are probably going to say no. But if not then:





    ~ I think you should tell your parent that it will help you having a dog because it will give you some company in rainy day and you will always have him there.


    ~ Also tell them it willteach you responsability and parent like that word trust me :D





    Good Luck
    you have to convince them that you will look after it maybe try walking the neibhourhood dogs to show them you will walk the dog
    Try a points system. Everytime you do something good or ace a test you get a certain amounts of points. When you reach a certain number of points you can get a dog. Thats what worked for me.





    You could also put together a little presentation. Showing your parents how to care for dogs, play with them and ect ect. This shows your parents you are responsible and fully capable of caring for a dog. If you had other pets that you took good care of then you can mention those too. Saving up your money to buy supplies for your dog is also a plus.





    Read this article to help you:





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    Either way you try good luck!
    not to sound repetitive, but the previous answers are all right. You should first demonstrate that your current responsibilities are easily and willfully managed. Bring new responsibilities upon yourself( washing dishes, extra house cleaning, etc etc). If possible start a garden, which is a time consuming project that is of a longer term and requires daily attention. Watch shows like the dog whisperer, pay attention, and learn from it. Offer to take other dogs for walks and exercise activities(possibly a way to earn a buck and demonstrate your sincerity in the desire to do the right thing). But most important, look into yourself...Do you want a dog for the right reasons? Not as a toy or a plaything, but rather as a companion and a friend.
    So that you are responisible in another way. Like keep doing your chores, homework, do chores that aren't yours, anything that parents like.

    Both Working Parents - How do you deal with the challenges of being a parent and maintaining your jobs?

    My wife and I both have jobs in corporate america. Our kids are in daycare right now. We have no family in the area. Could you please tell me about some specific strategies or ways that you juggle your jobs and the responsibilities of being a parent? We have very flexible work arrangements, but one of our kids has a stomach virus and has been out for 3 days..probably going to be at least 4. How do you handle extended sickness? When your kids are in elementary school, how do you handle days when the kids have off or summer vacation and you don't have off? You've gotta run out of vacation days. Any thoughts or suggestions are appreciated. My wife and I love spending time with our kids and we're not trying to race to the top of the corporate ladder...just trying to get a good balance of work and home life. Thanks!Both Working Parents - How do you deal with the challenges of being a parent and maintaining your jobs?
    when the kids are sick, my husband and I take turns...and if at all possible we try to make up our time at work after hours or on the weekends if using vacation or personal time is no longer available. As our kid grows up and he has days off from School we plan to continue using our sitter. If your children are all in day care I would start researching area sitters for times that your kids have off from school. Now that you have the time to do it since finding a good reliable sitter is very tough now and days. Being in the world where two incomes are needed it is so tough to keep up with the family so finding ways to adapt will continue to get easier as time goes by. Good Luck to you and your wife.Both Working Parents - How do you deal with the challenges of being a parent and maintaining your jobs?
    As far as summer goes, most kids go to camp or some sort of summer program. As far as illness, if it's extended, I would suggest splitting the time between the 2 parents. There is also the option of hiring a babysitter.
    You can never tell when your kids are going to get sick, but when they do there is nothing that you can do but stay home and take care of them if you do not have family or a regular babysitter available to take care of them for you. As for elementary school vacations, they usually have it scheduled at the beginning of the year so parents can make arrangements. Check at the beginning of the school year, and schedule vacation time accordingly.
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  • How can I avoid my parents putting out their anger on me while they're fighting?

    Like little kids, my parents aren't talking to each other under one roof. Usually, they talk it out, but it has already been almost a week. My dad is somewhat reasonable, so he is trying to say some stuff to my mom. Contrastingly, my mom deliberately ignores him even though he asks her a direct question. She doesn't take fighting easily and keeps putting it out on me and my siblings. She doesn't even sleep in her room anymore. It's ridiculous and childish. How can I avoid my parents putting out their anger on me while they're fighting?
    1) Stay out of the fights.


    2) Don't take sides.


    3) If one of them comes to you complaining about the other, inform that parent that you aren't taking sides.


    4) Repeat nothing to either parent if you overhear something.


    5) Just go to your room and shut the door when they fight.


    6) Be aware that it sounds like they are heading for divorce so don't make it worse by crying, whining, begging for things they can't afford to buy you or choosing sides.How can I avoid my parents putting out their anger on me while they're fighting?
    Wow, that is a tough situation you are in. It's virtually impossible for a kid to talk some sense into their parents. And it sounds like your mom would not listen anyway. I say keep yourself busy and stay out of the way. Also, make sure that you don't give her anything to be mad at you about.



    Don't take sides but tell them that they are being ridiculous and childish and it's time to grow up. Coming from you it just might open their eyes to see how fullish they have been.
    I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this kind of tension. All I can suggest is keep your distance from her until this is resolved. I know, not easy when you live under the same roof.
    I could not have said it better myself. Julie H. above is totally correct. Way to go Julie!

    How can you convince your parents to let you get a 9mm handgun?

    I already own a couple .22's and a .410 but no pistol. I want something with some more recoil than a .22 but they say i don't need one. I've already saved up the money for at least a glock and a couple mags. I have been around guns for almost all of my life. How to convince?How can you convince your parents to let you get a 9mm handgun?
    Contrary to what some people have stated, specifically what pathfinder stated, you don't have to be 21 to purchase a handgun. It depends on the state you live in. In AK it is 18. In MT you can buy any firearm at any age. 21 is very common for handguns though. Either way, it is NOT by federal law, but instead by state law.





    Also, odds are that if you live in a state where you need to be 21 to purchase/possess one, you technically don't own any of your other firearms, as those states usually also require you to be 18 to purchase/possess rifles in shotguns. In those states, while you could use them on temporary loans (such as for hunting, etc.) under adult supervision, you technically don't OWN either of them.





    Honestly, if I were you, I'd just wait. I have actually no problem with minors being around firearms, as I've been shooting since I was a kid and I shot my first handgun, a Llama .45 ACP, at the age of 11. I just think that it's probably best to make sure you follow your state's laws, and also your parents' wishes.





    You can use the two links below to find out more about handgun possession/ownership. Be warned that the second one is put together by the Brady Campaign. It does however answer some basic questions relatively accurately.How can you convince your parents to let you get a 9mm handgun?
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    some one your age doesn't need that many guns.my 9 year old has a 22 to go shooting with me and that is all he needs. not saying that you would do it but that is how all the school shoots start easy access to guns.
    Sprinkle some marijuana on their breakfast cereal about an hour before you ask them if you want favorable results.


    P.S. What is lefty limpwrist doing in a discussion like this? Who will chime in next - Rosie O'Donnell?
    I'd wait until you are legally old enough to buy one, otherwise talk your dad into getting one together. I'd not start with a 9mm, I'd recommend a Walther or SW 22. Nice shooter fun plinking soda cans and paper.





    Save until you are old enought 21 in most states for the 9mm, 40cal, 10mm or 45 of your choice. I'd opt for the SW99 or Walther P99..
    If you are under 21 years of age, federal law prohibit you from owning and possessing handguns and handgun ammunition. You may use them however, on a target range, or hunting under adult supervision.
    Keep saving your money for a 9mm. In the short term I would offer you the following advice; buy ammo. I have several 9mm thundersticks and in the past year ammo has more than doubled in price; and is increasing almost weekly now. Go to J%26amp;G, AMMOMAN, or any number of other sellers and buy some 9mm ammo by the case; and just set on it. That way when you do buy a 9mm you will be able to have little fun shooting it. Secondly, look around a little. The Glock is okay but I have several friends in LE that really don't care for them. Taurus makes a nice model that looks like a Beretta 92, EAA makes a very nice witness model in both blue and stainless, and S%26amp;W makes very nice models. I prefer a metal stainless steel handgun over plastic model. Talk to people and do some research and be patient.
    Time to take a stand in life and cut the cord..... My parents were never gun people. I had to learn shooting on my own through Scouting %26amp; Guns %26amp; Ammo. The first gun purchase was not exactly welcomed with enthusiam. But seeing as it co insided with the LA riots on TV, it was nice to have nearby.


    Buy the Glock.... It a sign that your not mom and dad's little boy anymore %26amp; that you are your own man. It's just part of the circle of life. Been there, done it already.....
    Well what are your reasons for needing more firepower?





    Tell them you were raped or something
    If you want to convince your parents, the best thing to do is to buy the gun online without your parents knowing it. As long as you keep the gun out of sight, your parents won't be any the wiser.





    But if you're the kind of guy that absolutely must have permission before doing anything, then beg your parents relentlessly until they give in and get you the gun.
    I know this sounds like old guy BS, but, really. You don't wanna have one. How many impromptu parking lot fights have you seen between sober guys, over nothing? How many of those guys took their butt kicking well? How many started looking for a bat, tire iron, rock, etc.?


    Later in life, you'll realise that, as a man, your brains and impulse control don't kick in until you're about 22-23. Just ask all the guys that lost teeth saying to me, ';I'm gonna kick yo.......'; they never got further than that. The best offense is a great defence. I shudder to think how many people woulda died, had I carried a handgun when I was younger. I'd probably be in prison or dead.
    Wait until you are of age. you are lucky to have a firearm in the first place so try to be content with what you have.
    You have to be 21 to buy one in the first place. If you are 21, then your parents should have little to say about it anyway. Buy the .45acp, or you will wish you had.
    Listen to your parents... You don't need one. If your not old enough to purchase it legally on your own and your parents say no.... There is no convincing them.








    Sounds like you have very intelligent parents!
    Well, i dont think it would be neassacary. try getting a .22 pistol, they are cheaper. I take it you arent old enough to buy one yourslef since you have to have their permission. If you are dead set on getting one, just get their trust, and maybe get a .22 pistol. Since you already own a few 22s they might go for that.
    their trust i guess..i donno
    Relax. One day you will be on your own and you can go get yourself a 9. Until then, just respect your parents wishes. You have alot more to be thinking of than what style of deadly weapon you want to own.
    If you are under 21 then you do not need one.If you want one that bad then join the military
    Listen to your parents, they are telling you the right thing. They probably realize guns lead to violence and murder, and want to protect you.

    How can I convince my parents to go on vacation?

    The last time we went somewhere was in 2006, and that was to Orlando for 3 days. We haven't gone anywhere since, and I've been stuck in my little town since then. How can I convince them to go somewhere?How can I convince my parents to go on vacation?
    Give your parents a break, your parents could be going through a financial struggle right now. Try not to think of yourself, I mean come on, your not paying the bills! Be lucky you went on a vacation once, and just continue living your life. I'm not trying to be mean, but still.How can I convince my parents to go on vacation?
    well...You have to ask them first what they want me to do to accept my vacation from my opinion i think that studying will be the best way to convince them and have a great vacation;)
    buy the tickets! or a bit easier- research cheaps and short breaks- ease em in slowly coz im sure theres a reason why you havent been much- eg mine cud never begin to afford it- so rarely is better then nufink!

    Is divorced parent able to give a minor a cell against the other parents will?

    One parent is purchasing a cell for a minor disregarding the objection of the other parent. Joint legal custody. Any precedents?Is divorced parent able to give a minor a cell against the other parents will?
    No. Its their kid too. He has just as much say as you do and can do what he wishes as a parent as a result. You can however control what goes on in your own home.Is divorced parent able to give a minor a cell against the other parents will?
    Nope - you are out of luck or the other parent is. The parents - either - are able to do anything they want. They can take their kids to rated R movies, buy violent games, purchase cell phones and Ipods. You name it - as long as it is not illegal, there is nothing that can be done.





    However, if it endangers the kid(s), you can take them to court for supervised visitation. But that is almost impossible.
    if it is joint legal custody then.....


    joint legal custody means that both parents have the legal authority to make major decisions for the child......





    if you had sole legal custody then....


    the parent who has sole legal custody is the only person who has the legal authority to make major decisions on behalf of the child.... these include decisions regarding education, religion, and health care...





    so in your case.......


    one parent has just as much right as the other to give the child what they wish....
    They can give them the phone, and when the child is in your care, you can take the phone away. If you tell them you intend to do that, they may decide not to waste their money on it.





    With that said, unless you have an *extremely good* reason why you don't want the child to have the phone, I'd suggest saving your 'stances' for the more important issues.
    It is not good parenting but one parent can give their child anything they want. Sometimes the non custodial parent will do things like this to make up for not being there all the time, to get the child to like them better or to annoy the ex. Waht is wrong with the kid having a cell phone anyway?
    Mom's rules apply when the kids is at Mom's house; Dad's rules apply when the kid is at Dad's house. You and your ex are never going to be in perfect agreement about matters like curfew time, driving privileges, rules for visiting friends, and so on and it's silly to try. Children are very adaptable and will manage just fine.
    It's a cell phone!!!!!!!!!!!! What kid doesn't have one? If its going to cause drama just take it before they go see the other parent or tell the other parent that it's for emergencies or staying in contact with you.
    It's a cell phone. For kids, that is almost like oxygen....they can't live without it. Stop trying to make a mountain out of a molehill. Once you are not paying for it, why worry?
    its ok.

    How can i persuade my parents to let me get a guinea pig?

    my guinea pig died a couple weeks ago. she was the best ever but i am finally ready to move on!! i need serious answers!How can i persuade my parents to let me get a guinea pig?
    Tell them that you loved your guinea pig a lot and you want to get another pet in remembrance of the guinea pig that died.How can i persuade my parents to let me get a guinea pig?
    Firstly...


    - are you willing to get 2? (guinea pigs are unhappy when kept alone, they mix better with their owner if there is 2).


    - do you have enough space? (they require a 30 inch by 50 inch cage) preferably INDOOR.


    - Do you have enough money? (they are not cheap pets)





    I know you have had a piggy before but even people who have piggies do not realise their needs (which is very sad!).





    All parents are different so unless we personally know your parents it is kinda hard to say how you can persuade them. If you looked after your previous guinea pig well then ask then WHY they won't allow you to get another. You'll need to find out why they don't want you to get another pair of guinea pigs first to find out how to persuade them.





    Good luck!
    well i dont think you should take my advise, lol, but...


    we ever i want a pet, i dont ask i just go out and buy it. haha. well it works
    Aw sorry for your loss :(, well did you take care of the guinea pig by yourself? If so you have proven that you are responsible enough, just make sure your not doing this because of the loss of your guinea pig. When my first piggie died I wanted to get another one but realizing it now I made the right choice of not getting one. If you need any info you can PM me.
    show them how responible you are and you could also save the $ to pay 4 it. that's what i did.
    Remind them of how responsible you were with your previous guinea pig. If you still have the cage setup, there shouldn't be any finicial problems. Assure your parents that the guinea pig will be well taken care of and get a sitter lined up when you are gone if your parents don't want to take care of it. Also say you are willing to use your money to buy the guinea pig. This is how I got my guinea pigs just a week ago and I hope it works for you. Good luck!
    When i wanted a mouse i cleand the whole house. then i made a contract on the computer, saying i would do the dishes if they let me get a mouse. it worked! im holding him right now.
    Did you just ask? I guess I don't know what their argument is. They know you take care of them right? You told them that you love and missed your old guinea right? Tell them you will rescure one this time instead of buying from a petstore. You'll be saving a life.
    tell how much you loved your old piggy :D
    ask your parents first if it's ok for them and bribe them by saying don' u want little cute chubby guinea pigs. And while your doing that do it in a soft voice
    Tell them that buying a guinea pig will teach you responsibility and how to care for another living thing. Also let them know that you love them very much and would eb very nice of them to get you one

    How do you effectively homeschool a child if both parents (or only parent) must work during the day?

    If it's possible, would you recommend this education/work arrangement?





    I asked this awhile ago but didn't get as many varying opinions as I had hoped for.How do you effectively homeschool a child if both parents (or only parent) must work during the day?
    A lot would depend upon the age of the child. Younger children will need direct interaction with the teaching parent to learn. Since the child would be too young to stay home alone, you would need to be sure your caregiver is wiling to work with you. This does not mean they have to sit down and be the teacher. But they would need to be willing to instruct your child to do their school assignments while you are at work. Make a simple assignment chart listing what you expect done while you are gone. Have the child check off the work as they complete each assignment, of put a sticker on the chart as they complete the work. IN other words your child care giver would be reinforcing what you are instructing, the same way they would support you as you potty train a toddler. You would expect the baby sitter to take the toddler to the potty at regular intervals instead of putting a diaper on them and ignoring your training. Therefore the sitter should know exactly what the child is expected to do while you are away and be willing to reinforce this expectation instead of letting the child sit in front of the TV or play video games all day. However, they may not be willing to instruct new material to you child, You can instruct new concepts before you leave for work. Get your child up a half an hour earlier in the morning and either do reading or math with them. Then leave assignments for the child care giver to supervise. Example if you instructed addition with regrouping (carrying) before you leave for work, then have your child do their math page while they are with the baby sitter. You can also instruct new material/concepts when you come home from work. You can also use weekends for some instructional time.





    If your student is older and can stay home alone, You can do the same thing. Leave an assignment chart listing what you expect completed while you are at work. Another option is using a cyber school. This could be a great option for all ages.


    Switched-on Schoolhouse is a great curriculum that is less most cyber schools. It is available for grades 3-12 and is designed for the child to do their work independently with little teacher direction. The child completes their work on the computer but does not have to go not online. You purchase the subject on CD-ROM. Once you install the application disk and subject disk, you set up the school year, assign the subjects, and the programming does the rest for you. It creates the lesson plans, schedules the work for the entire school year, and grades 90% of the work as your child does it. They have immediate feedback and you have much less grading. You only have to grade essay questions and reports. If your child gets stuck they on a problem, they can skip it and send you a not through the school messaging system. You can answer their questions, assist when needed and grade the questions SOS does not grade when you come home. Most evening it takes me less than 10 minutest to grade and check up my two students progress. SOS even reports how long your student spent on each subject each day. So when my student failed a test and told me he studied for the test, I looked on the daily report only to find he did the entire daily subject in 5 minutes...Definitely not much study time!. When this happens, with a click of the mouse you can erase all the work and reassign it.





    Although it's always optimal if a parent can be home during the school day, Homeschooling can be very flexible and you can work around your schedule.How do you effectively homeschool a child if both parents (or only parent) must work during the day?
    There are lots of options. Yes, it can work. It has worked for lots of people. But it takes more organization and planning, more determination than the average homeschooling arrangement does.





    Get a babysitter to watch the child during work and do ';school'; stuff in the evenings or on weekends--no one said that learning can only occur during working hours.





    Get a babysitter to watch the child and oversee some of the ';lessons'; so that the parent might be teaching some material but not necessarily all of it. The lessons could involve ';homework'; on things taught to the child already by the parent, or educational videos to watch, or books to read, or trips to museums, or whatever the parent can think up.





    Make arrangements with another homeschooling family to have them watch the child and include the child in their ';lessons.'; This requires a family with ideas and methods that the parent is comfortable with (and you have to make sure it works with local homeschooling laws--would work in some areas and not in others); I've known a few people to do this; it's a benefit for the homeschooling family as they can make some extra income and the child gets a homeschooling experience.





    Get a job that allows the child to come along. I knew a woman who worked for a daycare center that allowed her to bring her child along. Some lessons would have to wait until later, when the child could get more personal attention, but some lessons could happen during the day.





    Work from home. Again, some lessons would have to wait until the parent isn't working, but the parent may have a flexible schedule and can schedule ';lessons'; when it works for him.





    Work different shifts, if there are 2 parents involved. I've known a few families where one parent works during regular business hours and the other works in the early evening or at night. The parents trade off teaching and child-watching duties so that one of them is always home with the children.





    Work a shorter work week. I knew a woman who worked at a hospital and worked 3 twelve-hour days a week. She had a babysitter during that time for the kids, but that left 4 days a week--she used 3 for homeschooling and one as a day off. Since homeschooling doesn't require nearly as many hours a week as regular schooling does, she easily covered more in 3 days a week than the local schools did in five days.





    I'm sure that there are other ways, too. Depends on how inventive the parent is. Figure out the aspects of the schedule that aren't flexible and those that are. Figure out what's affordable and what's not. Then see what will work for your particular circumstances.
    I have done it. I haven't found the homeschooling while working to be that big of a challenge.





    You assign the child independent work for when you're not there. You bring it with you the next day and go over it at lunch. You work together a couple of nights a week and on Saturdays or Sundays for a few hours. We also work through the summer year-round, taking a few short vacations here and there.





    Basically, you don't have to try to follow a school's schedule; you create your own.








    I think the most difficult part of it is child care or arranging rides for your kids to their activities. That was the tricky part of balancing the schedule for us because our kids are always involved with classes or volunteer work or some kind of group projects and field trips.
    My husband and I both work. I am blessed enough to have a job in which I can work from home so I am in charge of education. I work out of the house one day a week in which my Mother-in-law watches the kids and does the school work with them. On that day I go out and do what I have to do. The rest of the week I am at home to do the work with them. For us this works.





    Every family is different and what works in mine may not work in yours. I started working after we started home schooling and when I found a job I let them know during the initial interview that my children's education came before work. My current employer understood that and we made the agreement that as long as my work is turned in on time I have a job. It has never been late.





    It took a little while to find some one who could watch the kids regularly because at the time my MIL was working. She has since injured herself and can no longer work so it gives her time with the grand-kids and something to do.
    You can school in the early morning or in the evening. You can use tutors, cyberschool or unschool. You may have to rely on friends, family and at home babysitters during the day.





    If I were a single mom I would do my best to continue homeschooling my daughter. But only you know what is right for your family.
    My husband works full time and I work part time in the mornings. We homeschool in the afternoons. If I had to work full time there would be no way it could be done. Not with a 6 yr old anyway. Now if she were over the age of 12 then yes it wouldn't be so bad.


    I could leave her at home while I work, and she could do her schoolwork. We could then go over it in the evenings.
    The question shouldn't be ';how do you'; it should be ';can you';.





    Unless your child is old enough to be at home alone all day and an extremely motivated individual learner, it's not going to be remotely effective. Homeschooling is not the right answer for everyone.
    One parent has to be home to teach the kids. Or hire a home teacher.


    Now if the parent is working from home then there would be balance between work and homeschooling the kids.
    What about an Au Pair? They could at least help with homeschooling for part of the day...
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  • How do I convince my parents to let me buy a small motorcycle?

    I am 15 and almost 16. Which means I am almost at the age where I can get a motorcycle learners permit. I am in the process of convincing my parents to let me get a bike. I already have a dirt bike which they fully trust me with. I need a small motorcycle cause I am only 5' 4'' but in the middle of a growth spert. What bikes do u recomend? (probably a 250).How do I convince my parents to let me buy a small motorcycle?
    u need to get traffic experience with cages first. u dont get a fender bender on a bike vs a cage....u get a coffin. and a 250 will kill u just as quick as any other bike. u dont get away with some mistakes...u just become dead.How do I convince my parents to let me buy a small motorcycle?
    If you were a bit older, I would say its easier to ask for forgivness than to ask for permission. However as a minor your parents will have the final say. It depends on how your parents feel about bikes. If they ride you would have a better chance. If not your gonna have a tough time. As for what size bike to get, start small, work your way up.
    My wife is 5'3'; and she rides a Vulcan 800 Classic. My first bike was an 1100 almost 30 years ago and I was 5'9'; at the time.
    you would not ride on highways? yeah sure. basically everywhere people go now involves a highway. its easy. im 18, and i ride a 06 ninja 636 black . just make sure you shut down your parents negative answers before they same them. its much like debating politics. know what your parents will say, and stay away from that subject. i never had a dirt bike. i went straight to the streets. try doing that. a good thing is to take a riders safety course. then you will have some riding under your belt in a closed course. its different from riding a dirt bike in a couple ways. but hey im 5'8';. get a 600 respect the bike and its power and you wont have wasted your money on a 250. a 250 would be a poor choice.
    Listen there bucker roo!! Being a dad with 5 daughters and they all ride dirt bikes and they ride w/me on my HARLEY'S.


    Ages 22,15,14,9%26amp;5 if any one of them wanted to get a harley I would say ya. Riding on the street and road ways is way different than riding M/X. TREES dont move!! NOW PAY ATTENTION ask your parents to help you select the right bike and gear for you, inform them you plan to take a m/c saftey course. Make them feel as if they are a part of your growing up big boy style. And for gods sake son buy a HARLEY!!(883)
    I have been in the middle of a ';growth spurt'; for the last 25 years, and I'm still 5'4';.





    Have you tried talking about scooters with your parents? Many scooters will go 80mph+ and get great mileage. I currently ride a Honda Reflex on my 80 mile round trip to work and back daily, and I love it.





    If you are against the idea of a scooter and a motorcycle you must have, check out the Suzuki Boulevard S40, the Yamaha Virago 250(nice V-twin), and of course my favorite, the Honda Rebel.





    Remember, it's one thing to ride a dirt bike around-off road-where there are no cars to deal with and another to be out in traffic. It is much more dangerous out on the road then off, and I'll bet your parents know this as well. Be prepared for your parents to say NO. If they say NO, thank them because it comes from love and concern for you.


    Good Luck


    Ride Safe
    You may want to take the MSF riders' class. Your parents might be impressed by the fact that you take street riding seriously enough to know the value of the MSF class.





    Street riding is much more dangerous than dirt riding, so you will need the ';aura'; of responsibility when discussing it with your parents.





    My son is 15 years old and he rides a 250 Ninja. There is no way I would have allowed him to ride on the streets without taking the class. I trust the class instruction over my own instruction...that's how valuable the MSF class is.





    And I do recommend the Ninja 250 as a beginner bike. It has a low seat, it's light (most kids can pick it up easily), it is very forgiving for the novice rider, but yet it performs well enough for freeway riding.





    And it is easy to work on and find part for.





    For a new rider, I suggest a used one as there are the inevitable spills during the learning process.
    if they have already said no, they wont change their minds. teens can barely handle a car much less a bike, and the actions of a few wind up filtering down to all. accept the fact that u wont be getting a bike until u are 18, and until u are 18, u wont be able to even get the permit for a car if they say 'no driving'. minors dont get a say so....adults do.
    a 250


    or the brand new crf150( they have ballz)


    its a little bit smaller in hight but will go as good as any 250
    well a 250cc bike is not a small bike . something under 100cc is a small bike.


    i cant help you because what your asking is something different then what you want . you want a large i assume dirt bike . but you call it a small bike.
    Show them that you're responsible by not crashing the dang thing. Wear a helmet. Gloves. Boots. Pants (no shorts) and don't open up the throttle until you go far enough away from the house that they can't hear you.


    The insurance will be about a quarter for a bike then a car.


    A bike will get about double the gas mileage of a car.


    Where do you live? Riding in the middle of a south dakota farm is different then in the middle of New york city which is different then the colorado mountains.....


    I guess the best thing that you could do for now is show them that you're a responsible person in general. Use your grades in school as leverage. Drive your ( or their) car carefuly. Don't fall off your dirt bike while they're watching.


    As far as which bike to get for your body build? I would say suzuki intruder 800cc the pegs are nice and high, The seat is low, the handlebars are laid back. The 800cc is kind of powerful though for your weight... but you'll get used to that in about 3 months. I don't reccomend starter bikes such as the suzuki GZ250 nor the kawasaki eliminator 125 because you will get bored of their lack of power real quickly. Just don't open up the throttle of the 800cc bike like an idiot and you'll be fine.
    until u are 18, legally, ur parents can block u from getting a mc license or permit. in ohio, minors...those under 18...it is manditory for them to take and pass the msf course, and u have to already have the mc permit. and no...just because ur old enough to apply for a permit doesnt mean u automatically can or should get 1; that decision is up to ur parents, not u, and driving anything on the road is a privilege, not a right.


    in this state....and i'm almost bankin 2-1 odds in ur state, minor's have to have parental permission. at 16, u dont need a bike, and if ur parents say no, then until ur 18, u wont be able to even get a mc permit. u could just go out and buy a bike, but how are u going to get plates? in my area, the dmv checks to see if u have a drivers license. if ur state is the same way, u wont be able to get plates without a license....permits dont count. u need at the minumum, a car license.


    think u need to start shopping around and find out how much insurance is gonna cost u at 16.





    u cant afford to daydream on a bike. like sandman said, u dont get a fender bender, u get a coffin. the most common and the most lethal threat to us is the left turn killer. it doesnt take freeway speed to kill u. u smack into the side of a cage at 30, and u could wind up takin a dirt nap.
    You could use a motorcycle's fuel economy and reduced impact on the environment (less plastic, etc) to convince your parents.
    Check out the ninja 250, you can get a used one for a good price on eBay. www.ninja250.com has some great info on the bike. As far as getting your parents to let you have it, I would say be a man and show them that you are responsible for a period of let's say 6 months where you have the bike but use it on a limited basis dictated by them. They will tell you when you can ride. Once you have established the trust you may gain more freedoms. Good luck and ride safe.
    are you a heavy kid?, a 250 can carry both my husband and I, i recomend something smaller, at least close to the ground, my hunsband's dirt bike is a 230 and it has some power, if you are looking for a street bike i suggest getting like nothing more then a 200 you need to be able to touch the ground and also know how to drive a bike with a clutch my little bro in law is almost 15 he has a 150 trail bike, its street legal and can play in the dirt too, my husband is 5'8 and his Yamaha 230 dirt bike is just fine for him, then he also has an enduro Kawasaki, so that can go street and dirt, its a 250 and hauls both of us together well, thats about 300 lbs, if the bike did go down you want somthing you would be able to lift off of you, we had a street bike, but i love the enduro on the street better then the Virago that we had
    i have a feeling that your parents wont allow u to get a motorcycle permit or license, so if you even want to drive a car, accept it if they say no. driving is a privilege, and they can approve or deny this privilege, even revoke it at their whim. you dont get to call the shots at anything until age 18.
    If you ALREADY have the money...





    BUY THE BIKE....





    Then , wait for yer Parents to give you permission to ride it.





    They'll ';give in'; easier that way.... ( Or ';give up'; )





    Gotta Fly...


    Mike %26amp; ';Jaz'; in MN / 05 ';Deuce';

    How do I convince my parents I can get a pet?

    I don't want a fish, but I would love it if my parents got me a cat or a snake. I am an only child, am home-schooled, and live in a childless neighborhood. It gets lonely and boring. Also, I am responsible, and I am also a neat freak.How do I convince my parents I can get a pet?
    Keep showing your parents that you are responsible, if you like nature and science try using that in your home schooling curricula then watching how fish live or a snake lives might work but you would have to take care of all it's needs. It's worth a try talk to your mom about that.How do I convince my parents I can get a pet?
    how about a bird?? very easy to care for..... a cockateal can be trained to do songs/chirps, even talk.. they will bond with a human, and are very fun.... and not really expensive....
    get a rabbit..they are easy 2 look after
    tell your parents I'll take care of it how it would be a big impact if there r no children around tell them i'll groom it take out it's litter n feed it of course tell them u'll even take new responsibilities to get it that's how i got my parents to get me a bunny!if u do get a cat asked me about cat care if u want to look at cat breeds visit my site http://adorablebunnies.wetpaint.com/
    Be a kid. Drama or something.

    How do I convince my parents to let me get a kitten?

    I really want a kitten the only problem is my dog is a little overprotective. He is super friendly with all of my neighbors dogs, but when we try to take his bone away or we annoy him he growls. My mom said she would love to have a kitten and my dad is unsure. Me being able to care for it isn't really a concern of them because it would be a family cat, not just mine.How do I convince my parents to let me get a kitten?
    so then the dog is the real problem... part of it depends on what breed the dog is i guess. if its fairly small the cat could probaly defend itself and even if its big,cats are very agile and fast. It will probaly be afraid of the dog and hide from it anyway. If your worried about your dog getting jealous then make sure you still give him attention and maybe buy him a bone or treats when you get a kitten. good luck, kittens are so fun and cuteHow do I convince my parents to let me get a kitten?
    Concerning possible problems with your dog; you could try keeping the kitten in a separate room isolated from the dog and gradually introduce items with the kitten's smell to the dog. Try giving your dog some treats every time it gets curious about the new smell. That should get you started with creating a relationship between the two animals. Remember to provide both the kitten and the dog their own private spaces, otherwise I guarantee you you'll have problems, especially if the dog starts thinking of the kitten as an intruder it its own space. The key is patience, take your time in introducing the two to each other, and only for a few minutes every day, until they get used to each other's presence.





    Concerning your parents, just show them you're responsible with actions. If that doesn't work, you can always argue that cats are low(er) maintenance animals and that they have been shown to psycologically benefit people.





    Hope this helps.
    before you get a kitten you should see how your dog would like it to he might hurt thee kitty to. you should take your dog over to a friends house that got a kitty. and see how it gos from there. we dont want want the kitty to be come lunchtime for the cat. my sister dog is like that to dont like his bone touched so she dont.
    show them that you are responsible
    fart in their faces

    How can I persuade my parents to get pet rats?

    I really want pet rats, but my parents are consent on saying no. I know everything there is to know about them. I need help on ways to persuade them. Please only give really good answers that will work.How can I persuade my parents to get pet rats?
    Whatever you do do not whine or ask them over and over again. I would remind them every so often over a 2-3 month period. Tell them facts about them in a normal conversation like ';Did you know that rats have a photographic memory and that's why they can run mazes.'; or tell them you can train them to do tricks. One time I wrote an essay about ferrets for my parents because I really wanted one. It did'nt work for me but it might for you.





    If they're worried about common myths about them like ';rats smell bad'; tell them how much they groom themselves and how the owner is suppose to give them a bath every other week. I had a male rat who smelled like maple syrup actually!





    If your parents think rats are mean and bite tell them ';No, those are hamsters.'; or a pet you had in the past who bit allot. ';Rats lick you alot for the salt on your fingers.';





    Another reson why your parents might not want you to have rats is that they might not think your responsible enough. Rats need to be played with and feed everyday, their cage needs to be cleaned once a week, and they need to bathed every week in the rare case of ';smelly'; rats or to the average, every other week. (often enough to wash away smell but not often enough to wash away the natural oils in their fur) Try doing more chores around the house without being asked. You should also try talking to them more often and become more of a friend. Some parents might not see their true qualities due to lack of comunication.





    If your parents don't want to pay for anything try paying for them yourselves. Rats need large cages, something that has 2-3 levels (male rats need less room because they're less active). Brand new cages are expensive (up to $150) but, you could try craigslist and get lucky ($50-100). A good diet consists of lab block along with vegitables, fruits and some other kitchen scraps so feeding should'nt take much of the budget.





    I'm going to try some of theese techniques because I want to get guinea pigs or rats. Rats are the best though! It might take some time for them to be convinced but good luck! :DHow can I persuade my parents to get pet rats?
    I had to go through the whole convincing thing when I was younger. Here is a little article about why rats make great pets. http://www.gomestic.com/Pets/Why-Rats-Ma鈥?/a> Maybe it will help to get past some of the misconceptions. Above all else, make sure to point out that you're knowledgeable about rat care and that you will be completely responsible for their well-being. You may have to wait months and bring up the topic every now and then, but good luck and I hope you get your rats. They're awesome animals.
    I had the same thing. I got the rats. I told my parents that I would pay for everything and that I wouldn't need their help at all. I said I would play with them every day and everything.


    it worked.

    How do I convince my parents that a tattoo would be okay?

    I'm 18 but they aren't exactly cool with tattoos since they didn't like my brothers. Should I just tell them or do it secretly?How do I convince my parents that a tattoo would be okay?
    You're 18 and there's nothing your parents can do about you getting a tattoo. If they're reasonable people, and it sounds like they are-since you didn't say that they flipped out about your brother getting a tattoo-they won't treat you any differently. But don't go beind their backs and do it, tell them ahead of time what you plan on doing. If you don't they may think you were deceiving them and loathe your tattoo even more.How do I convince my parents that a tattoo would be okay?
    u don't have to do it secretly.u r 18.ur allowed to do what u want


    but if i were u i would wait until you know for sure that u do want one and positive of where u want it at.many professions will not hire you for a badly misplaced tattoo.
    Do it secretly and when there around, if u can hide it with a sweatshirt or something , once you get it , they can't do anything about it , soon they'll get over it , don't worry!!!
    To put it simply...if the choice is between telling them and basically lying to them...you gotta tell 'em. Why lie to the people who are closest to you? In the end, no matter what happens to you throughout your life, your parents will always be there for you. Why decieve them...one little lie leads to bigger ones down the road.





    Okay, maybe I didn't put it simply...but you get the point. ;)
    if your convinced youll like it for life go for it. my parents hate mine but its probably not the biggest problem they have with me so meh
    You know my mom wasn't too thrilled with my idea of getting a tattoo but since I was old enough I told her I would get it anyway. I showed her the design but she was still iffy about it being permanent and all. But once I got it she loved it. It came out really good so she was cool with it. So I think if it's not too big and it works well for you on your body your parents will come around.
    Listen to your parents. I have three tattoos myself, and I got one of them on a dare from my Friends, never realizing that they would be with me for life. Well, at the time, not CONSCIOUSLY realizing that they would be for life. I have one on my lower back, one on my neck, and one on my ankle. The one on my neck almost got infected by a dirty needle, and I had to go to the hospital where they cleared it with some antibiotics. Trust me, it was NOT a pleasant experience. So listen to your parents because if I had it to do all over again, I wouldn't have got a SINGLE one. For some reason, parents are more accepting of their sons decisions than they are of their daughters. Your parents may feel like since you are a girl, that your skin should stay unmarked. While I don't agree whole-heartily with those views, I can say that getting a tattoo is not the best thing in the world. So if I were you, I would wait a little longer to see if that is what you really want. And many people say that you can get them lasered off, but laser removal is VERY expensive, and the tattoo doesn't come off completely. Trust me, I inquired around to see if I could! There will still be some residue of it left. So, think long and hard about getting one, because once you get it, it's there for life.
    Listen to your parents and don't get the tattoo.
    Remember a tattoo is basically forever and what seems really fun right now might not seem so hot 30 years from now. Think real carefully about this.
    maybe you should get a small one, and it should be in a not so regrettable part of your body. Tell your parents anyway. Get a cool one though, don't get the same crap everybody has.
    No don't do that. listen what they say.
    well, ur parents proburly dont want a needle shoved in you just to get ink on you. remember it PERMANENT.(and painful)


    theres no real way to convince them.
    Mine wasn't either, you just do it, I have five now, if you are waiting for them to OK it, you probably got a very long wait..
    First ask yourself why you want a tattoo in the 1st place. If it is really reasonable, then tell your parents about it. I'm sure they will be more than happy to know your reasons to tattoo and give a go about it rather than finding it out later. Communicate with them.
    just do it...
    Honestly i dont think u should get a tatoo, there really is no point.... there r no tatoos u can look at 40 years from know and think that it was a good choice to get it

    How can I convince my parents to let me get gynecomastia removal surgery?

    I've had hormonal gynecomastia since I was 10 and I'm 17 now, and I've seen no improvement. I tried asking my parents to let me have surgery for it but they just laughed at me. How can I convince them?How can I convince my parents to let me get gynecomastia removal surgery?
    It is rough having gynecomastia I went through the same thing you`re going through now.Is there a surgeon in your area that you and your parents could go to and let them see what gynecomastia really is? A really good surgeon could convince them that you really do need the surgery.Go to www.gynecomastia.org and check out the infomation there it`s very helpful.If your parents decide to go with you let them ask some questions then if the doctors says you need the surgery


    they might let you have it.How can I convince my parents to let me get gynecomastia removal surgery?
    Well, there are two ways to look at it. Wait for a few more months until you are 18. The other is to talk to your doc about whether this is considered an 'elective' surgery or a 'neccessary' surgery. If it is necessary then you can get it now depending on the state you live in. In most states you can seek and receive medical attention and surgery at 14 or 15 without your parents consent. Although recovering may be a problem as you may want them to help while you recover, lol. My SIL had an abortion performed at 14 without her parents ever knowing until she was 27. My brother had a lump removed from his scrotum when he was 17 without our parents knowing because he was to embarrassed to share with them. So, check into it. But honestly I would wait until you are 18. If you are on your parents insurance now then you are covered until your 19th birthday. Another thing you could ask about yourself without them.


    I would wait though so that you could have them help you recover.


    Curious, why won't they just let you do it now? I am assuming it may not be covered by insurance and therefore may be pricey.


    Looks like you have a little research to do before making a decision.


    Good Luck to you!!!!
    Do you take your shirt off in front of your parents?? If you truly have gynecomastia then I would hope that your parents would want to get you that surgery as soon as possible. It could be that you think it is worse than it actually is. Either way, just wait until you are 18 and then you don't need the parent's permission to get the surgery.
    if you can tough it out for one more year you can do it on your own. i'm sorry that your parents laughed at you. Good luck.
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  • What should I get my parents for their 21st wedding anniversary?

    Well, last year i couldn't get them anything as it was messed up! It was on the 16/08 and it was my result's day! Things didn't turn the way I expected them to be and I spent the whole day crying! I'd really like to catch up with what i missed. Any suggestions people?What should I get my parents for their 21st wedding anniversary?
    Do something for them rather than buying them something. It will mean more and it's easier to personalise. Maybe cook them a nice meal, stuff like that.What should I get my parents for their 21st wedding anniversary?
    try and get a realla good photo of their wedding or when they were young together. take it took a professional shop and ask them to


    enhance it etc and then have it put in a cool frame.


    still at home? - leave a bottle or two of champagne in the fridge


    a lovely card and a note that you will not be back til the following


    day. yep your parents still do that.....
    Depends on your budget - you could pay for a weekend away somewhere (not necessarily abroad, just somewhere special)... or if you are not on such a high budget, why not get a photo of them together and get a beautiful frame for it, and then cook, or take them out to, dinner?
    Take a look at www.journeyprints.com. It is a wonderful anniversary print that serves as a personalized keepsake and can include you and your parents most important memories.
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