Thursday, May 13, 2010

How can u convince your divorced parents to move back in together?

The reason i need help with this because whenever i see them they don't talk and i just want things to be right because now my dad has this HUGE house all to himself and i wanna move in with him but i also want my mom to come!Those who have divorced parents because someone cheated i feel sorry because i know what you are going through.When i was little i thought my parent would be together forever and i always wanna stick to what i think.(im not bossy!)just please help me!How can u convince your divorced parents to move back in together?
I am sorry but I really don't think that they will get back together any time soon. If one person cheated on the other then the trust is gone. The person feels betrayed, hurt and will also have low self esteem about being cheated on. If they stayed together they would probably still not talk to each other or else they would just fight all of the time. This doesn't mean that you still can't love both of your parents-you should love them they are your parents, but please try to understand them and try to get along with your different life now. After my parents divorced they became really good friends, but it did take time.How can u convince your divorced parents to move back in together?
You can't force or convince them to move back in together. They obviously separated for a reason and believed that was the best option for them.





I know this is impacting you right now, but are you even pausing to think how it would affect your parents by moving back in so that they can play ';happy family'; for your sake? It could be so emotionally gut wrenching for them
you cannot convince people who don't want to be together to get back together. I wish life was like that but it's not, unless your parents want to there is nothing you can do or say that will change their minds. I hate hearing stories like yours because it makes me sad, just trying and spend as much time with both parents as possible and love them. good luck hon
Your parents will NEVER get back together. NEVER. Get over it. What you want is not going to happen and trying to convince them otherwise is pointless. They divorced for a good reason and staying together just because you want them to is selfish and pointless.
you will have to make peace with the idea they will not ever get back together, sorry but that is the reality of it, hope you do find peace in this situation

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